Most people keep trying to defy lesbian to be this certain way and act a certain way, when you guys are giving yourslef these characteristics and stereotypes. In Radicalesbian’s “The women Identified women” she gave all these things lesbians were and this was from her point of view, she concluded that lesbians hide for so long and keep away that these actions cause conflict with people later on. In my honest opinion keeping away who you really are only makes it harder for you to be yourslef in the long. Most men really dont have problems with the lesbians in the community, you like the women you like and thats your business, although you may take away from us men sometimes thats your well being. However most men began to have problems when women walk around trying to be guys and causing problems in our lives.